So can I just say that buying a home means there's no going back to being cool? Man, my ass is so domesticated! We're getting our backyard done right now with concrete, etc. Normally, a backyard isn't something I think too much about. We used to rent a big home before and we didn't give a damn about the backyard until we wanted to BBQ. Now? I'm coming home from work everyday and checking on progress. That's the first thing I do! Help!